For smart women with an ex or partner who won't budge
Divorce Boundary
Protect your time, energy, and mental space before, during, and after divorce.
You lead teams and projects, manage your own business, or run a household. You make hard calls every day. Then one message from your ex or partner lands, and you spend the night rewriting your reply.
He won't budge. It's his way or the highway. You keep walking on eggshells. And every time you give in to keep the peace, you lose a little more of yourself.
You're not weak. What's missing is a clear boundary. In 90 minutes, you'll write your first one.
Free live masterclass on Zoom
Friday, November 20, 2026Â
12:00 to 1:30 p.m. ESTÂ
Join from your office, your car, or anywhere that works for you.
Lisa Gu
Divorce Strategist · Master Communicator
You're in the right place if you're…
Before divorce
…asking yourself, should I stay or should I go?
Protect your energy while you get clear.
During divorce
…in the middle of separation or settlement negotiation
Hold your ground without escalating.
After divorce
…divorced, and communication with your ex still needs work
Stop the same fights from repeating.
Sound familiar?
⇒ It's his way or the highway.
⇒ You say yes to keep the peace, then resent it for days.
⇒ You rewrite one text over and over, hoping this time he'll actually understand.
⇒ You're paying your divorce lawyer a lot, but you don't feel heard.
⇒ The divorce is final, but the same fights keep coming back.
⇒ You feel like you're hitting your head against a wall.
Maybe you've tried setting boundaries and he just ignores them. That's exactly what we'll work on.
Not setting boundaries with your ex or partner costs more than it looks. It costs you money. It costs your parenting time. It costs you sleep.
And slowly, it chips away at your self-worth.
I know how heavy that is. I've been there, and some days I still am.
Meet your guide
Hi, I'm Lisa.
Divorce Strategist · Master Communicator · Certified Life Coach
Married 12 years. Divorced 3. Single mom with full custody.
This August, my ex emailed to blame me for a legal dispute he started over a year ago. I didn't write three paragraphs to defend myself.
Instead, I wrote one calm reply with one clear line about what I would do if it continued. Then I hit send.
What happened next? I'll share it live on November 20, including my 3F Method to set clear, firm boundaries. It's the same method I now use with my clients to get real results in their divorce.
Today I help smart women say what they mean, set healthy boundaries, and make clear divorce decisions that save them time, money, and sanity.
In 90 minutes, you'll learn:
01
Boundary, request, or ultimatum: know the difference
02
The early signs you need a boundary
03
The 3F Method, and your first boundary written
04
What to do when he ignores it
05
How to set boundaries with your divorce lawyer to advocate for you and your kids
06
Real client stories with real results
After November 20
⇒ His next message lands. You know what to say, and you send it without rereading it 100 times.
⇒ You walk into your next lawyer meeting knowing what to say, so your lawyer actually listens.
⇒ The powerless feeling starts to fade, and you know you can handle it, no matter what happens.
Is this masterclass right for you?
This is for you if:
⇒ You're capable at work, in your business, or at home.
⇒ Your ex or partner is controlling or passive-aggressive. It's his way or the highway.
⇒ Your lawyer keeps brushing off your ideas, and you're paying to feel unheard.
This is not for you if:
⇒ You just want to blame him for everything.
⇒ You're not ready to look at your part, whatever he's done.
⇒ You enjoy attending masterclasses but aren't ready to put what you learn into practice.
3 simple steps
1
Sign up
Takes 30 seconds.
2
Get the Zoom link
Right in your inbox.
3
Attend live
Leave with your boundary written.
Client results
After one clear boundary, a client's ex signed the parenting plan within 2 days, after months of silence.
After setting a firm boundary with her lawyer, a client got most of what she wanted in her divorce settlement, after the case had stalled for a year.
What clients say
“
Going through a separation brings on a ton of unknowns. Part trail guide, part therapist, part mentor, Lisa pushed me, challenged me, and helped me prepare for this next stage of life.
Eric W. · Google review
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Lisa is extraordinary. In just one conversation, I felt empowered, clear, and confident. She listens deeply, cares genuinely, and knows exactly how to get to the heart of your challenges.
Fauve A. · Google review
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Working with Lisa was one of the most clarifying and empowering experiences of my life. Her gentle guidance and calm presence helped me find clarity and confidence during a difficult time.
Karen D. · Google review
“It's not mean or bad to say no.”
Past boundary masterclass participant
“It's good to know that other people are experiencing similar challenges like myself, which gave me some relief that it's not something that I'm behind the ball on.”
Past boundary masterclass participant
Your peace is worth 90 minutes.
Divorce Boundary Masterclass
Friday, November 20, 2026
12:00 to 1:30 p.m. EST · Live on Zoom · Free
Questions
Is the masterclass free?
Yes. No credit card.
Will there be a replay?
This masterclass is live only. There's no free replay, so come if you can.
Will anyone know I registered?
Your registration stays private. On Zoom, you can rename yourself and keep your camera off.
Is this a co-parenting masterclass?
Co-parenting comes up, and it's one piece. This is for any situation where he won't budge: parenting, money, your settlement, court, and even your own lawyer.
Can men attend?
Yes. I wrote this page for women because most of my clients are women, but the tools work for anyone dealing with an ex or partner who won't budge.
I haven't decided to leave yet. Is this for me?
Yes. Boundaries help you protect your energy while you get clear, whatever you decide.
Is this legal advice?
No. I'm a divorce strategist and certified life coach, not a lawyer. I'll help you communicate clearly and protect your peace. For legal advice, please speak with a divorce lawyer.
I work with a group of compassionate, caring, and highly competent divorce lawyers, and I'm happy to make an introduction if you need one.