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Renew You


Renew You is our blog, offering insights, inspiration, and encouragement
to 
empower your reinvention through divorce and live a fulfilling life with
peace 
and purpose.

Why Healing Your Nervous System Matters in Divorce divorce healing divorce transformation May 15, 2026

English is an interesting language.

When something happens, one of the first questions we ask is: “...

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Turning Pain into Purpose: My Life After Divorce divorce transformation lifeafterdivorce Feb 11, 2026

In March 2020, my then-husband of 12 years told me he had “fallen in love with someone else.”
I was 1...

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6 A.M. Shenanigans with My Inner Shame divorce transformation Jul 16, 2025

I woke up at 5:30 feeling scattered.
There was this subtle emotional pain I couldn’t quite name.

So ...

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How A Simple Fix Saved Me $3K and Could Save You in Divorce Too divorce transformation Jul 02, 2025

A couple of years ago, my fridge just stopped working.
Nothing was cold. No ice. Total meltdown.

So...

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Panic Zone, Comfort Zone, Stretch Zone: Where Are You Right Now? divorce transformation May 03, 2025

When Eric and I first met, he was stuck in what I call the panic zone of divorce.

You might know th...

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You Are Your Compass | What I Learned from My Job Loss and Divorce divorce transformation Feb 28, 2025

Three weeks ago, I lost my corporate job unexpectedly. I was called into a meeting and told my posit...

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The Love Formula: When 1 + 1 ≠ 2 divorce transformation relationship coaching Feb 13, 2025

One of the biggest lessons I learned from my divorce is that 1 + 1 doesn’t always equal 2.

For a lo...

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The $52 Parking Ticket That Almost Broke Me (But Didn't) divorce transformation Jan 20, 2025

Like most of you, after the holiday break, my kids and I are still finding our rhythm. Monday mornin...

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Reconcile with My Dad--"Life is a marathon, not a sprint." divorce transformation relationship coaching Jun 16, 2024

In February 2007, I was home for my last winter break from university in China. As my parents prepar...

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